Abha Malpani

Competition:Win a copy of SuperFreakonomics!

November 7, 2009 · 11 Comments

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If you haven’t read, or at least heard of Freakonomics — shame on you.

In a nutshell, as put perfectly by the AP, Freakonomics is a book where the authors “crunch numbers about mundane topics to reveal interesting, unexpected conclusions”. For example: What do school teachers and sumo wrestlers have in common? Why do drug dealers still live with their moms? Questions you wouldn’t really think to ask, but they are valid, and if nothing else, beg you to think differently and feed your curiosity. A quirky book that is written basis principles of economics, anyone with an inquisitive mind will enjoy it. I wrote a review of the book about 2 years ago that you can read here. Also, the authors of Freakonomics have a regular blog on the NYTimes and you can follow them on Twitter http://twitter.com/Freakonomics, so do check those links out to get a flavour of their crazy thinking ability.

Now, the success of Freakonomics lead the authors to come up with another such book called “SuperFreakonomics”. You can check out some reviews of it here (WSJ) and here (LA Times).

I haven’t read the book yet (on my priority list to read), but I do have two copies to give away!

So, tell me, in not more that 50 words, why do you deserve to win a copy of SuperFreakonomics?

You can leave a comment here or send me an email at abha.malpani@gmail.com with “SuperFreakonomics” in the subject line. Deadline to send in your comments is November 17, 2009.

Come on then, it’s an easy win! :-)

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Radio interview: Nightline Dubai

November 3, 2009 · Leave a Comment

nightlineA few days ago, I had the privilege to be on Nightline Dubai with James Piecowye. For those of you who are not familiar with the show, it’s a talk show that airs Sunday – Wednesday 8-10pm (103.8FM), and covers a variety of subjects. James is a great host and also happens to be one of the guys who organised TEDxDubai.

The show I was on was dedicated to Adwomen, an organization that brings together women in the marketing and communications industry.  If you’ve been reading here for a bit, you would have seen that I spoke at an Adwomen event a few months ago.

On the show there were four of us from different sectors of the industry, including the founder of Adwomen — Preethi Mariappan. Other than Adwomen, we talked about the communications industry in the region, how it functions, what we do, and as women in a male dominated industry, how we feel. Check it out here if you fancy a listen. Open to thoughts!

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Movie review: MJ’s This Is It

October 28, 2009 · 1 Comment

This Is It

I went to the premiere of MJ’s This Is It with child like eagerness. This was really it. His last days on the planet were spent practising for his final world tour, one that he had no idea he wouldn’t be on.  The elation and the glory behind all of it reeked through the screen with a strange, sad, and strong undercurrent of finality. 50 sold-out concerts were cancelled. Cause: death by drug-related cardiac arrest. What fucked up fate.

Irrespective of the controversies that cocooned MJ over the last few years, there is no doubt that his effect on people was unique and overwhelming. The man was pure passion, talent, energy and understated (perhaps even undermined?) genius.

The film glorifies MJ in his most natural state of being: pre-concert rehearsals. That time when you function with pure excitement as you put everything into prep for a performance that promises to take you and your audience to a land never been to before. The film does well to give us genuine and unmanipulated glimpses of the man the world loved but never really understood completely.

Physically, however, he appeared a mess; a blaring fact in the film that I suppose just could not be hidden; it was sad to see him physically ruptured and strangely skeletal. But, you overlook it as a minor flaw in his otherwise phenomenal element of being. He was not a normal person, not physically, nor mentally — something that seeps through the entire film; but then which world famous legend was?

Other than MJ’s musical talent, the film sheds light on what MJ was like to work with and his relationship with crew, musicians, and dancers.  The movie is filled with genuine sound-bites and anecdotes from them, on and off set. You’ll notice an interesting chemistry between MJ and his gang: formal yet warm and loving, fun yet peaceful, thrilled yet patient, determined and disciplined, yet having the time of their lives. I can’t imagine how traumatic MJ’s death must have been for those people.

What is also amazing to see in the film is what goes into putting together a massive, mind-blowing concert: the sets, the lights, the outfits, and the mechanisms involved in making every second on stage special.

One of the key differentiators of MJ was that he has always told a story through his music. He never just sang. He invented, he created, he dared to imagine insanely — and then he took you there to experience it all with him. That’s what made him stand out from the rest and that’s what would have made MJ’s final world tour unforgettable.

The film cleverly tells a story that is insightful an interesting. It also weaves in beautifully rehearsal performances to almost everyone of MJ’s blockbuster hits — you’ll often find yourself tapping your feet and lip-syncing to the songs.  The man’s energy, passion and genius exudes throughout the film.

After watching the film, I felt like I had been part of his prep to give the final concert of his life, and that I got a peek into otherwise unchartered territory. I think the film aimed to re-capture and portray all the aspects of MJ that made him magnificent, and it succeeded.  A must watch for anybody who can sing  along to one or more of his songs.

Here’s his latest track in case you haven’t heard it already: This is it. Beautiful.

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So, here I am…

October 27, 2009 · 1 Comment

After a manic few months, this week is the first time I’ve had the luxury of being a little lazy at work.

Laziness at work = guilt, so hell, let’s at least blog :-)

Not much significant has happened to me lately. Oh I did move into my own apartment.  The bliss.  It’s so great to have your own space, walk around in your underwear, eat straight out of the cooking pan, and not do the dishes if you don’t feel like it.  It’s so easy to forget about little joys. Add to that some microwave-warmed caramel Digestive biscuits and those little joys turn into inspiration that makes you want to conquer the world. Well, not quite but you get the gist. (NB: do not put the biscuits in the microwave for more than 30 seconds, they will burn and smoke up your entire house and yes, the fire alarm will go off).

Socially, I’ve been rather subdued too. The odd crazy night out at Dubai’s *happening* clubs reminds me why I prefer staying at home and watching Brothers & Sisters while eating burnt popcorn.

Lots of thoughts have been brewing inside me lately, although none of them seem to be evolving into anything. They’ve been strong enough to feel, but not strong enough to react to.

I read these lines on a blog today and at this undefined point in my life, I identified with them strongly:

I am undetermined.

I have an urge for performance.

I like to do things by myself.

I like to listen to others stories, rather than tell my own.

I don’t like being alone. I don’t like socializing, but I’m not an introvert.

I’m too slack to think. I tell myself : “There is nothing to worry about. I should just seize the moment and enjoy myself.”

Right. I don’t know what it means that I feel the above. I’m neutral that I feel it. But I have a strange throbbing instinct that something is going to come of it all.

These thoughts may be ephemeral and shallow. But they could also be profound, volatile and revealing. Maybe they are just marking the fact that I’m getting older, maybe even growing up – finally! I really don’t know. But what I do know is that, for once, I’m just going let myself be.

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Overwhelmed by TEDxDubai

October 12, 2009 · 4 Comments

IMG00054-20091010-1626TED is the best thing that has happened to the planet. When TED went online about 2 years ago, it became the best thing that the internet has given the world. TED reminds us that we all have the power to change the world, and gives us the inspiration to do something with that thought.

So when TEDx was coming to Dubai, I was thrilled. However, as hype for it started building ferociously, I was afraid that it would turn into a large commercial gambit where corporations would banter about their success and people would hob-nob for the sake of it.

To be brutally honest: I went expecting the worst, but hoping for the best.

I stayed for all the 20 speakers (10am-6pm), yawned perhaps only once, and left feeling motivated and truly inspired. TEDxDubai truly over delivered.

There was a standing ovation at the end, which is when I lost the little black book I was taking notes in the entire day. I was going to share all my learnings from the day and some of the fabulous quotes from speakers that really stuck. But, unfortunately I don’t have them anymore. Luckily, the TEDx bloggers have posted their notes from the event, do check them out to get a speaker by speaker summary of key points.

All the speakers were fantastic. Really fantastic. They included a 13 year old film-maker; the creator of Freej and THE 99; the catalyst of the Arabic stand-up comedy revolution; the founder of Independent Thinking (inventor of  the concept of “thunk“); the founder of the 8-Day-Academy, and the CD at IDEO.

The production quality was almost on par with the real TED (global). Well, it’s Dubai, not a surprise I suppose. Well-organized, good food, enough supply of coffee, and not a penny spent by us attendees. It couldn’t have been better.

Those who didn’t come, you really missed out.

The only thing lacking was, in a room where 500 odd people  got together for the whole day to listen to some great ideas worth spreading, there was no way to interact with other members of the audience, unless of course you went up to them randomly and introduced yourself. Which perhaps I should’ve done (but it’s so not what you do in Dubai!) :) .  In previous events such as BarCampUAE, you left knowing new and interesting people. Perhaps because they were much smaller groups with interactive sessions. Anyhoo.

All in all, thank you TEDxDubai. Look forward to it again next year!

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Dubai Twestival is back!

September 7, 2009 · Leave a Comment

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Us post Dubai Twestival organisation meeting

Those of you who missed the first Dubai Twestival (@dubaitwestival) that happened earlier this year, make sure you don’t miss the next one!

The Twestival is a global event that unites people on Twitter for  good cause. Local editions of this concept will be held in over 200 countries from September 10-13.

Here are Dubai event details:

Date: September 12, 2009

Time: 8pm-11pm

Venue: Jam Jar @thejamjar (map)

The first one attracted over 150 people; we raised some good cash for Charity Water and had a blast as well!

If you’re  not on Twitter, well, urrr, you should be (!), so register and then come along to meet other Tweeters.

The charity we are supporting this time is the Dubai Autism Centre, a non-profit organisation set-up to integrate autistic children into the community and raise social awarness for autism. Expect a fun time that will make a difference — all you have to do is show up!

Register for the event here too please, it will just take a minute and will help us get an idea of numbers. There is limited space, so register fast!

Come, tweet, meet and give!

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Post-vacation toplines

August 30, 2009 · 6 Comments

9 flights, 6 buses, and numerous taxi’s later, I am back in Dubai trying to absorb that over the last 3 weeks I was in 4 different countries.

Goa with 30 family members was a blast that left me emotionally fulfilled and fat. Poker, Balchao prawns, Bollywood dancing, beach, pool and Bloody Mary’s were most part of our itinerary. That was clubbed with the warmth of  uncles, grandmothers and cousins.  Very comforting and unifying. I have the best family for whom I thank my stars everyday. Coming back to Dubai for a night alone after that made me feel lost and void; not the best note to start a holiday on. Luckily I had family in NY who were cushion to that angst as I prepared to head off on my own to Ecuador.

New York is a great city! It’s all so familiar because you’ve seen everything on television-you feel like you’re in a film:  5th Avenue, Hell’s Kitchen, Wall Street, Ground Zero, the Highline, Rockefeller Centre, Empire State Building, Brooklyn Bridge, Times Square, etc. Also managed to meet up with a few travel-writers at the Village including David Farley, Cullen Thomas and Eva Holland; such great guys! It was one of the best evenings I’ve had in a while. They were also the only people who said I’d have a great time in Ecuador without pondering on how dangerous it might be or how mad I was to be going on my own.

Ecuador was a great experience that included history, geography, culture and jungle, tinged with a little bit of altitude sickness, stories of people getting mugged at knife point, and hallucinogenics; all of which I shall write about soon.

All in all, a wonderful trip. Perhaps a bit too far to travel for such little time, but oh well, it’s something.  My backpack was lost by Continental Airlines on the way back from Quito, so I gaily flew back empty handed. Not so gay anymore, I want my stuff!

Post-digestion of trip thoughts and learnings, more will be posted here soon.

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Traveling!

August 8, 2009 · 6 Comments

After 8 months of working pretty hard, I’m now officially on holiday! It seems like ages since I had any time off and am thrilled to have 3 weeks of it.

I have a plane to catch in an hour; off to Goa for a family reunion. About 35 Malpani’s are getting together in Baga. Great grandmothers to great grand-daughters, and the whole age spectrum in between. It’s going to be a riot!

Then I fly to NYC for a weekend to hang with my cousin and hopefully catch up with a few friends. I’ve never been to NY, but I feel like I’ll find it familiar, thanks to all the TV programmes I watch.

Then I fly to Ecuador for 10 days. Not quite sure what I’m doing there yet! If I can crack my visa to Peru, I will hop over to do the Inca Trail. Anyhoo, let’s see what happens.

Will definitely try to blog while I’m there. Traveling in unknown territories inspires me to write, so hopefully this blog will come alive again.

That’s all really. Happy summer!

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Immortal MJ

June 26, 2009 · 4 Comments

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The impact of MJ’s sudden death to me is similar to that of Princess Diana in 1997. Heartwrenching and unbelievable.

I loved MJ as a child and grew up with his music. My room was full of his posters. My books had MJ bookmarks. I had all his albums on tape and then on CD. I had all his movies on VHS and could recite Thriller by heart. Billie Jean is an all time favourite, The Way You Make Me Feel is a song all girls want guys to sing to them, Bad is rad, Black or White made a much needed statement, and Heal The World still makes me cry. And, he was the best dancer on the planet.

When I was 8 years old, MJ released his autobiography. It cost £9 at the time and I was desperate to have it. My pocket money was £1 a month; I saved for 9 months to have it; and then read it in 2 nights.

The man touched millions of people all around the world, redefined pop, and made history. He will never be forgotten.

:-(

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TED India and TEDxDubai

June 13, 2009 · 5 Comments

tedindiaThis weekend I had the privilege of meeting with someone who has my (newly recognised) dream job. Lakshmi Pratury, former marketer, venture capitalist, and social entreprenuer, now works for TED – one of the best organisations on this planet, dedicated to bringing spectacular people together to change the world.

Those of you who are not familiar with TED: it’s an annual conference that brings together fascinating people who have incredible ”ideas worth spreading” and are asked to talk about those potentially life-changing bursts of wisdom in 18 minutes.

Richard Branson, Benjamin Zander, Bill Gates, Tim Ferriss, Isabel Allende, Phillipe Starck, Al Gore, are just a few of the 400 odd mind-blowing talkers that have spoken at the TED conference. TED began in 1984 where it concentrated on topics related to technology, education and design, however today, its scope is much beyond that.

The launch of TED.com about 2 years ago has made this otherwise exclusive closed-door conference of eclectic people, accessible to anyone with access to the internet. Log on, watch a talk, and believe me, you will be hooked. When I lack inspiration (which is quite often these days), a couple of talks on TED.com and I’m ready to seize the day again. The best thing is the diversity of talks you can watch; depending on your mood, you can watch talks that are “jaw-dropping”, “funny”, ïnfomative”, “persuasive”, “ingenious”, “courageous”, or just plain “beautiful.”

TED.com is one of the best gifts the web has given the world. A must, MUST look at.

Lakshmi was here in Dubai to talk about the launch of TED India. The conference will be held in Mysore November 4-7. You can still apply to be an attendee (you have to be accepted to attend) or a Fellow (deadline June 15), full details can be found here.

When I found out that Ted Fellow applications for India were open, I jumped on the process with full intention to apply. Careful study of the application process made me feel too inadequate to apply since they are not looking merely for people with potential, they are looking for people with potential who have already tried to do something that matters with that potential. I get severely stumped there. I have done nothing with my capabilities that will help anything  in any way, nor do I yet have a conceivable idea to do the same. A look at this video and a read of previously selected Fellows and you’ll know what I mean. The process, however, has made me want to look at things differently and get moving on ideas that might actually matter some day.

Lakshmi, at the session at Knowledge Village, gave us further insight into TED and what it means, and how everyone can participate if they really want to. She gave the example of William, a 19 year old boy from a village in Malawi, who built a windmill from scrap with his bare hands. That windmill gave his home enough energy to power 4 lights and a radio. The awe-inspiring session from this young African boy at TED can be seen here.

“The only thing that stops us from doing is our own mind” she said to the group of 30 odd people present. So true. That, and the lack of self-inspired motivation and commitment to doing something that really matters.

TED will make a little mark in Dubai as the licence to hold TEDxDubai has been obtained. On October 10 in the city will be a local rendition of the actual TED. Unlike TED India, this is not THE TED as it will be managed independently, but something similar. More details are yet to be revealed by the licence holders; you can follow their blog or twitter to stay updated. If you know of any speaker based in Dubai, who has an “idea worth spreading” be sure to submit your recommendation to tedxdubai@gmail.com.

TED.com. Log. On. NOW.

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