Abha Malpani

Immortal MJ

June 26, 2009 · 3 Comments

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The impact of MJ’s sudden death to me is similar to that of Princess Diana in 1997. Heartwrenching and unbelievable.

I loved MJ as a child and grew up with his music. My room was full of his posters. My books had MJ bookmarks. I had all his albums on tape and then on CD. I had all his movies on VHS and could recite Thriller by heart. Billie Jean is an all time favourite, The Way You Make Me Feel is a song all girls want guys to sing to them, Bad is rad, Black or White made a much needed statement, and Heal The World still makes me cry. And, he was the best dancer on the planet.

When I was 8 years old, MJ released his autobiography. It cost £9 at the time and I was desperate to have it. My pocket money was £1 a month; I saved for 9 months to have it; and then read it in 2 nights.

The man touched millions of people all around the world, redefined pop, and made history. He will never be forgotten.

:-(

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TED India and TEDxDubai

June 13, 2009 · 4 Comments

tedindiaThis weekend I had the privilege of meeting with someone who has my (newly recognised) dream job. Lakshmi Pratury, former marketer, venture capitalist, and social entreprenuer, now works for TED – one of the best organisations on this planet, dedicated to bringing spectacular people together to change the world.

Those of you who are not familiar with TED: it’s an annual conference that brings together fascinating people who have incredible ”ideas worth spreading” and are asked to talk about those potentially life-changing bursts of wisdom in 18 minutes.

Richard Branson, Benjamin Zander, Bill Gates, Tim Ferriss, Isabel Allende, Phillipe Starck, Al Gore, are just a few of the 400 odd mind-blowing talkers that have spoken at the TED conference. TED began in 1984 where it concentrated on topics related to technology, education and design, however today, its scope is much beyond that.

The launch of TED.com about 2 years ago has made this otherwise exclusive closed-door conference of eclectic people, accessible to anyone with access to the internet. Log on, watch a talk, and believe me, you will be hooked. When I lack inspiration (which is quite often these days), a couple of talks on TED.com and I’m ready to seize the day again. The best thing is the diversity of talks you can watch; depending on your mood, you can watch talks that are “jaw-dropping”, “funny”, ïnfomative”, “persuasive”, “ingenious”, “courageous”, or just plain “beautiful.”

TED.com is one of the best gifts the web has given the world. A must, MUST look at.

Lakshmi was here in Dubai to talk about the launch of TED India. The conference will be held in Mysore November 4-7. You can still apply to be an attendee (you have to be accepted to attend) or a Fellow (deadline June 15), full details can be found here.

When I found out that Ted Fellow applications for India were open, I jumped on the process with full intention to apply. Careful study of the application process made me feel too inadequate to apply since they are not looking merely for people with potential, they are looking for people with potential who have already tried to do something that matters with that potential. I get severely stumped there. I have done nothing with my capabilities that will help anything  in any way, nor do I yet have a conceivable idea to do the same. A look at this video and a read of previously selected Fellows and you’ll know what I mean. The process, however, has made me want to look at things differently and get moving on ideas that might actually matter some day.

Lakshmi, at the session at Knowledge Village, gave us further insight into TED and what it means, and how everyone can participate if they really want to. She gave the example of William, a 19 year old boy from a village in Malawi, who built a windmill from scrap with his bare hands. That windmill gave his home enough energy to power 4 lights and a radio. The awe-inspiring session from this young African boy at TED can be seen here.

“The only thing that stops us from doing is our own mind” she said to the group of 30 odd people present. So true. That, and the lack of self-inspired motivation and commitment to doing something that really matters.

TED will make a little mark in Dubai as the licence to hold TEDxDubai has been obtained. On October 10 in the city will be a local rendition of the actual TED. Unlike TED India, this is not THE TED as it will be managed independently, but something similar. More details are yet to be revealed by the licence holders; you can follow their blog or twitter to stay updated. If you know of any speaker based in Dubai, who has an “idea worth spreading” be sure to submit your recommendation to tedxdubai@gmail.com.

TED.com. Log. On. NOW.

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Slides from my talk at Ad Women ME

June 8, 2009 · Leave a Comment

picadwomenHere’s a pic of me in action at Ad Women Middle East. Yikes, I need to practice not closing my eyes when I speak. BTW, I’m not disgruntled; just super-emphasizing a point I was trying to make. I think. Anyhoo.

For those of you who are interested, the presentation slides from my talk are now uploaded here on the website under the punching title “Social Media – Collaborate or Die”.

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Adwomen Middle East: Session and Talk

May 28, 2009 · Leave a Comment

A few days ago, I had the privilege of speaking at a session of Adwomen Middle East. Social media being one of the most talked about subjects today, thanks to my blogger background and current position as new media consultant, voila, people want to know what I have to say (ha, figure that!).  I spoke about why brands cannot afford to ignore social media and how powerful internet users have become today.

It was the first time I spoke outside a client’s boardroom. Was quite flattering and motivating, and am really thankful for the opportunity.

Also, the venue at — Shelter — was just. awesome.  Really cool, underground, chic, arty, funky, inspiring venue. I must go there more often. Perhaps for the next Pecha Kucha.

It’s not easy to speak in front of a large audience who have come just to listen to you.  I spent good time planning and practicing what I wanted to say; but of course, on the day, I let my mind wander and I said what I felt, trying to stick to the points I’d planned to make — without much success (yes, I digressed and waffled, on many occasions!). However, I felt surprisingly confident and I think that’s what pulled me through it.

The overall feedback was that it was a good session.  Two of my colleagues attended and their feedback was very encouraging as well. I really wish a close friend came (and not missed it because they had yoga or forgot, welcome to Dubai?),  someone who would have given me brutally honest feedback and some tips on what I could have done better. My mum came, she said I moved a lot and was very animated. Hmmm.

Anyway,  it was a great learning experience for me, and I really hope that I gave the audience something worth coming for.

It was also wonderful to meet a group of bright marketing professionals interested in connecting and sharing knowledge. I look forward to attending the next session.

The PowerPoint presentation I made and video of the same (yikes) will be up on the Adwomen website soon, so will link to it when I can.

Happy Thursday!

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Today’s postcard from a stranger

May 10, 2009 · Leave a Comment

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From PostCrossing.com. Made my day. It’s from a guy called  Simo in Finland.

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Feedback on BarCampUAE

May 10, 2009 · 1 Comment

What a great day at the UAE’s first BarCamp. I went grumping because it was early Saturday morning and I just wanted to sleep — but I’m so glad I made the effort.

We were about 30 people I’d say. Presentations were planned for the whole day and topics ranged from social media (social media for social change, social translation, social media ethics) to entrepreneurship, to cloud-computing, to ultra-light start-ups. It was all live-casted using Ustream.tv; we even had a live webcast from Slywia Presley, blogger and social media consultant.

DIC provided the venue, Emirates Computers the laptops, Du the wifi; there was a coffee machine, donuts, and lunch. Attendees paid nothing and I’m sure left satisfied and inspired, I certainly did.

The highlight for me at BarCampUAE was the team Lego Serious Play session done by @disruptiveplay. We were told to build our passion with Lego bricks, then what we built was psycho-analysed.

I built a hippy-caravan. The words I associated with it were: freedom, peace, and world. I made it so badly that it just wouldn’t stand right. I was told to add a piece to it so that it would not keep falling; I just couldn’t make it stand right. Then one of the team members offered to help and fixed it by adding a support ladder. Apparently that was a lesson for me in that I need to let people help me and be find a person in my life that will help stabilize it. Heavy, eh? Lot’s more was discussed too, making it a rewarding and fascinating session.

All in all, a great day with lots of really cool people. I really look forward to the next one.

Thanks to Twitter handles @floatr, @pkgulati, @disruptiveplay to have made it possible.

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BarCamp in the UAE

May 5, 2009 · 3 Comments

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Those of you who complain that in Dubai people do not get together to have meaningful conversations, stop complaining and make sure you go to BarCamp.

Yes, one’s happening in the UAE! For those who are not familiar with the concept, it’s an informal gathering of people at an event where the substance of the event is created by the participants.  It’s the definition of “open-source”  in practice and anyone can initiate one by using the BarCamp Wiki.

The idea to do this is Dubai came up when some of us Tweeters were eating cheese manaeesh at Souk Al Baher. Two of the key organisers of Dubai’s first BarCamp are Twitter handles @floater @floatr, @disruptiveplay — well done guys and thanks for pushing this forward.

Being Dubai, the discussion topics need to be watched a bit,  so a free to all online topic list was created at: http://discuss.barcampuae.org/

Some of the topics are:

- Social media for social change

- Story telling in a digitally connected world

-The open education project

Here you can read descriptions of the ideas, vote for them, and if none of them tickles your ribs, suggest your own!

So, event details are:

When: Saturday, May 9.

Where: DELL building at DIC

What time: 10am onwards; 9:30 am if you want brekky :-)

Follow the guys on Twitter for updates at @BarCampUAE.

I think it’s going be a great morning. I will be there, come!

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Blogging Hiatus

April 29, 2009 · 2 Comments

My blogging hiatus for the last month or so has been the result of long office hours, and extreme repulsion to my laptop when I get home.

When I was a blogger I wrote about 70 posts a month, so perhaps I’m also a bit blogged-out.

Today I woke up with an ardent need get back into the blogosphere actively.

So while I attempt to make that happen, I will leave you with an article of mine that appeared in this weeks issue of  Campaign ME.

Unsurprisingly, it’s on Social Media; it’s more of a personal take than anything else. Comments are welcome!

“Authenticity is key” — Abha Malpani on brands and Social Media (as re-published on Campaign’s blog).

Happy Wednesday!

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Thought for the day

April 5, 2009 · 7 Comments

My Mum sent me this quote about a week ago; and ever since have received it a few times and think it’s just great.  It’s simple but gives you that whack on the head we all need once in a while, especially when we wake up grumpy.

Tried to find out who originally wrote it, but couldn’t –  so if any of you know, please share. Here it is:

“Life is too short to wake up in the morning with regrets, so love the people who treat you right, forget about the ones who don’t, and believe that everything happens for a reason. If you get a chance, take it. If it changes your life, let it. Nobody said life would be easy, they just promised it would be worth it.”

Anyhoo.  Sorry for not posting much.

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Acronyms: Know or feel stupid

March 24, 2009 · 5 Comments

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Over the last few months, I’ve repeatedly come across some acronyms that until looked up, I couldn’t for the life of me figure out what they were for. They’re used most often in emails and sometimes in conversation.

The full forms are pretty basic that once you know what they are you feel stupid for not naturally (like doh!) knowing about them. Here they are:

IMO = In My Opinion; then you have IMHO = In My Honest / Humble Opinion

SNAFU = Situation Normal All F***ed Up, apparently with origins in World War II.

FYA = For Your Action?

MIA = Missing In Action (yeah, doh. I tossed around a lot for this one and was convinced it was Mission Impossible but Attemptable. Guess I was very wrong.)

COB = Close Of Business

FOB = Fresh On Board, apparently what Americans call Indians who have just moved to the US and still say things like “vay” instead of “way”, and “wery” instead of “very”.

SITKOM = (my favourite) Single Income, Two Kids, Oppressive Mortgage.

Then you have all the online chat ones like:

BFN = This took me forever to get: BYE FOR NOW. Argh.

TA = Thanks Again.

EM = Excuse Me (like, AUS!?)

In case you are like me and don’t have a clue when people type this stuff online, here is an entire list of online chat acronyms. Any more I should know of?

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